When my therapist began insisting that I block my ex on Instagram I began insisting that she was wrong. She didn’t understand the complex world of social media and it’s implied social cues that us millennials know all too well. I pleaded that me blocking and unfriending my ex would look petty and childish. I would appear to be the one who was desperately heartbroken, not able to catch even a glimpse of his face. It would be too obvious that I was sad, and mad, and then more sad. Now let me be the first to admit - I was wrong.
Read More2018, what a weird year. My 2018 started off on a great note, and is ending on not such a great one. And by not such a great one, I mean a fiery crash of messy life events beyond my control. Having some HUGE control fallacy issues, I tend to take terrible events out of my control not so well (I’m working on it, kind of).
Read MoreI never thought I would be one to start a “blog”. From my snarky perspective it seemed like a completely self-serving and self-centered world filled with upsettingly stylish girls making avocado toast and sub-par DIY projects. And perhaps my instincts aren’t totally off with that assessment, but there is certainly more to this online world than watching someone hawk haircare gummy bears and flip Ikea furniture (just so everyone is clear, it never looks good, ever).
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